Do you, worry less

I have been many different characters over the years, I can admit that.

The party girl, the relaxed girlfriend (but deep down really gave a crap about certain things and did not speak up enough.) I have been the fearless girl ( but deep down really scared,) the loud, over compensating confident girl (but deep down not feeling very confident at all,) this is just to name a few. But the whole time I tried to fit in with what was considered “cool”, mainly in my teens and early twenties, I was never really truly happy, I just did not realise it at the time. It has taken a while to find myself, and now that I have, I cannot relate to the majority of the people I used to try and be. Once I started to live authentically, this has had the most positive impact on who and what has been coming into my life since then. Genuine people and experiences that are always right for me in the present come into my life, and even though things may not always turn out as planned, they are still genuine lessons or blessings that I either have to learn or experience in order to push me to continue growing and healing so I can always find the person who I truly came here to be. I have spent years giving wayyyyy too much of a shit of what others thought of me and so had to mould myself into a false perception to fit the appropriate characters at the time, but the only person that I did an injustice to was myself. I still find it really scary at times to put myself out there and be vulnerable and open BUT in the midst of fear, I am being authentic and that feeling overrides any underlying fears, and that is why I continue posting, sharing, writing and podcasting. It is to inspire or comfort those who can relate to what I talk and write about. Please, if there is anything you can take from this post, it is hopefully to encourage you to live your life for you. No one else matters as much, because if you took away everyone and everything, you would only have you, and that is why, you are the most important person, always ❤️